I'm with everyone else here in being very grateful to hear everyone is ok.
Imagine if you were in a smaller car, things could have been soo much worse.
Back in the day I used to be a panelbeater, body shop technician I think you all call them, and as such I will let you know I have repaired much worse damage. ....
don't be down hearted about the car. ....
I'd offer to assist, but I no longer have the tools, nor the inclination for that type of endeavor, sorry.
No worries mate! Wife and kids ALL decided we WILL KEEP her, and restore her to the Street as best we can. That car had been re-assembled from the garage it sat in for several decades by the young man who inherited it from his daddy, and sold to me cheap on my Word I would do all I could to make his daddy's car good, and car for it as the Departed meant to. For 5 years, I've sweated, bled, cursed, prayed along, slowly building the old rolling wreck BACK, until the catastrophe of 09/13. We first bought it to protect our then 9 month old daughter and selves from the idiot drivers around here who had totaled the disposable crap '89 Olds Ciera we' got for our first car as a couple.
My then 2 yr old 1st daughter, Darija ready to "drive her Mathilda"
While some fools, usually besotted with too much money for their own soul's growth might think of a family vehicle as "just a machine" and so forth, those of us who know Labor for Love and OF Love know Better. Yes, we anthropomorphize our mechanical CREATures, as we toil to make them serve The Living better. I say those who would just junk these works might do well to ponder whether their own souls merit any better consideration themselves...
Let US be REJOICE in our KNOWING our Works are NOT, as certain soulless fools might type, "JUST cars." As a man who worked them for many GOOD, WELL SPENT, I SALUTE YOU! May St. Joe pray for you, as Salt of the Earth for your work. You needn't apologize to me now that you no longer have the energy for such labor. It's damned hard, isn't it?