Dave, I feel you pain. Taxes will be the death of me unless I get out of Illinois. From what little I know, Jersey is pretty brutal on taxes too.
Every time I turn around, Illinois politicians are hitting us in the pocket for more and more, but they can never have enough.
I live in a nice neighborhood by choice. Built in 1999. My taxes were $4200/yr then. Now they're creeping up close to $9K for my little cul-de-sac lot.
New York's former mayor, Michael Bloomberg is running ads on the local TV stations endorsing the soda-pop tax Crook county just passed. I'm thinking to myself, "What's he gaining by advertising here"?
I don't drink much pop, but I am told the new tax equates to 0.87 on a 2 litre of soda pop. What a rip-off.
I quit smoking over 15 years ago when a pack of smokes were going for $5. Now smokers are forking over somewhere in the neighborhood of $10/pak...mostly because of the sin taxes these politian's created years ago.
The commute in Chi-town is no treat either. Construction going on everywhere, and now every road that seems to be built or "upgraded" now includes tolls to drive on them. Not long ago, tolls were .040. Now they're $1.10 or more if you don't have an I-Pass. Oh, they charge for that too.
Some of these roads have a toll on them every two or three miles...total BS.
My wife has heard me ***** for the last few years how badly I want to leave, but I am kind of trapped for now with having my own business here. I'd have to find a buyer before I can go, and when I do leave, I don't want to work anymore.
Tennessee has been looking like the direction I would go. My wife has a cousin with a house outside of Nashville on 52 acres and she the was told they pay $1200/year in property tax. I don't know if I believe can that, but she has no reason to lie about it.
Next year we are planning to go down to Tennessee to check out the area and find what amenities are close by.
When I hear stuff like how little people are paying in different places throughout the country, it makes me realize where all my money is going, and where it will continue to go, as long as I am in Illinois.
I hope you find your ideal location when you decide to leave your home state.